Love Is Like A Dance…..Missteps Happen

My Dear Future Readers,

I want to talk about something different today….. Mistakes. After all we are all human and we make mistakes. Even more often when it concerns the matters of the heart. But the real mistake is refusing to listen and notice the other person and their body language. If you love someone deeply, you should be attuned to his or her body language. In fact, the way the body speaks is a dance in itself.

It is frustrating to explain everything in great detail to the person who should be able to see when you are angry or sad or disgusted. It is not hard to see what the person is feeling on his or her face. You just have to care enough to see it. I believe that genuine people can notice every emotion and not make you even angrier. Noticing and acknowledging emotions is a big part of loving the person and building a solid relationship.

Making such a mistake repeatedly will never make your relationship better. People are different and they express their emotions in different ways. I’m lucky enough that I can put my frustrations on paper. In doing so, I can relieve my stress onto the page. Other people cope in other ways. But all people feel disrespected if their emotions are triggered by another person not listening to them or picking up on their body language.

I believe that love and respect go together no matter what kind of relationship you have with the person be it romantic involvement or not. A person is a person no matter what. I know that it is a subject that everyone can relate to because we all have that one person who we constantly have to explain even the most minimal things to. Yes, I do too. And I believe every person deserves to be treated well.

Even the body language is a form of respect Mistakes happen but people have to learn from those mistakes and if they don’t you should not suffer for it.

If you feel emotions through your very soul like me, you might be an empath and if that person just acts like you are not sitting there with a scroll on your face and giving them the silent treatment then they don’t understand who you are. That means you should just avoid them and if you can’t just ignore them until they go away. Because you can’t explain every little thing to them and the chances that they will understand are very small. They just don’t understand that everything you feel is multiplied by ten times.

Why?

Because, if it is a strong feeling you will keep thinking about it for days. I know it sounds strange but it is true. I know I should give up on being angry right now but I just can’t. It just doesn’t feel right. Every person has their own psychology and I have mine and I know that people will understand who have been disrespected with their emotions. People who care do not do such things. If a person cares about you they try to help you to not bring stress into your life. Especially, if they love you. Life with the one whom you love should NOT be filled with stress.

I look forward to hearing from you soon. I thank you all for your infinite support.

Yours Truly,

Diana Rose

YA Fantasy Romance Published Author

“GPS on the Path to the Heart” In Modern Life and Fantasy

My Dear Future Readers:

As we all know the journey that leads to the heart is not an easy one to travel on. But with the right strategy a person can find love. There are no proven method that is known for finding true love but there are plenty of ideas to try and find true love. It is not about the result but more about the creativity and effort that is put into the search. It is in fact the realization that the fantasy portrayed in my book can be turned into real life.

“You need, in short, to create an illusion of destiny.” -Daniel Jones, New York Times.

Today, I want to discuss with you an article I found that was written in the New York Times. The article discusses the methods by which it is possible to find love.

In his article, “GPS on the Path to the Heart,”  Daniel Jones explores the ideas and methods of modern life love searching.  He explains the ideas about how love searching is possible in the modern world today.

I believe that in some ways text messages seems impersonal. It takes away something intimate out of our romantic relationship. But it also is a quick and easy way to say something sweet but it will not replace heartfelt messages of love in letters like in the times of royalty.

“We are in matters of love never to chase. But chasing someone you love to the ends of the earth is different.” -Daniel Jones, New York Times.

This quote from Daniel Jones perfectly describes my male main character and the kind of love I write about in my book. The kind of love that makes chasing to the ends of the earth more than okay because true love never dies. I believe that if you truly love someone it is reason enough to follow them to the ends of the earth to be reunited. Loving someone so much that you would run after them to be with them.

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/02/13/fashion/13Modern.html?_r=0

I look forward to hearing from you soon. I thank you all for your infinite support.

Yours Truly,

Diana Rose

YA Fantasy Romance Author

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