My Dear Future Readers,
Today is Valentines Day. On this day we think of those we love…. Our families and our significant others.
Truthfully, I used to not be so into Valentines Day for many years. I looked at everyone who had someone to celebrate with and I thought to myself…
Why don’t I have someone to celebrate with too? Everyone has a boyfriend or girlfriend except me.
But then, I just sort of gave up on the idea of Valentines Day. And now, I think I was wrong. My reaction to this holiday was all wrong. Love is for everyone to share. It does not matter if you found your true love or you’re still looking like I was until now when love has found it’s way to me finally, what is important is that you show the people in your life already that you love them.
Your significant other will come when you are ready and Valentines Day will be that much more special.
On Valentines Day , we think and talk about love. After all, love is the most important thing in our lives. It keeps us safe when we are in danger, it makes us strong when we are weak, it gives us hope and support when we have none.
What I have learned about love recently?
I have learned a lot of things about love as 2015 ended and 2016 began and I am still learning these things.
The First thing that I have learned about love has to do with what I call Beauty-Handsome Factor. They say that beauty is what matters most when two people meet. But I havwe found that to be a bit altered in reality. If you were ever like me, insecure about your beauty then the right man will make you feel beautiful. No matter what you are wearing or if you put make up on today or not, he love the way you look regardless of appearance and that will make you feel beautiful and confident.
It doesn’t matter what you look like as long as the man you are with makes you feel like a Princess.
The Second thing I learned about love is what I like to call The Brain and Goals Factor. I realized now that a woman with big dreams and goals for her life is a very attractive point in a woman. If a woman is goal oriented and has big dreams it doesn’t normally scare men off as long as the woman they are with supports their dreams as well. The dream-train goes both ways, make no mistake on that.
The man you choose for a significant other will respect your dreams if you respect and support his own dreams. Be smart on this one. Being a woman with big dreams can only understand a man with big dreams.
The Third thing I learned is called Family Relations. This is important because when Mr. Right decides you are Mrs. Right, you will want to maintain good relations with his family. Just like he will want to maintain good relations with your family. It is best to always be the best you can be. Yes, I do not say this without knowing. I know what it means to be an accepted member of a family. That has to come even before you say “I do.” Your Mr. Right will love you more as will his family.
Honesty is always good! Be yourself and be honest with him and everyone else. Be respectful. Love takes work and if you work at it you will be happy.
After all, love was what created the world we live in. Be kind and happy and MR. Right will come along.
Let your love be happy and your day a bright sunshine.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ALL!! I thank you all for your infinite support.
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